Meeting strangers should not feel like a gamble
Solomigo is built around one uncomfortable truth: the whole point is meeting people you do not know. So verification, moderation, reporting and trust levels are not settings we bolted on — they are how the product works.
What we do
Eight things working in the background
Private selfie verification
Every member completes a live front-camera selfie check during onboarding. It confirms the account matches the person behind it, and it is never shown on your public profile.
Human review before you are visible
New profiles and plans pass moderation review before they appear on the map. Nothing goes live just because someone tapped submit.
Women-only plans
Hosts can restrict a plan to women only. These plans are filtered out of everyone else's map entirely — not just hidden behind a warning.
Age and audience controls
18+ is enforced at signup with date-of-birth checks. Hosts additionally set an age range and gender preference for each plan.
In-plan safety panel and SOS
During an active plan you can check in, reach emergency services in one tap, and send your live plan details to a friend over SMS.
Report and block, on everything
Profiles, plans, messages and group chats can each be reported with a reason. Blocking removes someone from your map, requests and chats immediately.
Trust levels, not just bans
Our moderation system applies graduated limits rather than blunt removals, so genuine mistakes are correctable while repeat bad actors quietly lose reach.
Attendance and peer ratings
After each plan, members confirm attendance and rate each other. No-shows and bad behaviour surface fast instead of disappearing.
What we cannot do
We do not run criminal background checks or verify government ID. Selfie verification proves an account belongs to a real adult — it does not prove someone is trustworthy. Please use the precautions below every single time, especially the first time you meet anyone.
What you can do
Twelve habits of people who never have a bad story
Before you go
- Read the host's profile, rating and past plan count. Context is there for a reason.
- Ask questions in the chat first. A host who will not answer basic logistics is a red flag.
- Tell a friend where you are going — the safety panel can text them your plan details.
- Arrange your own transport, and keep enough money or charge to get home alone.
While you are there
- Meet in a public place the first time you meet anyone from the app.
- Keep your drink and belongings with you.
- Trust your gut. Leaving early needs no explanation.
- Never send money, share bank details or accept a 'quick investment' conversation.
Afterwards
- Confirm whether you actually attended, so ratings stay honest.
- Rate the people you met and vouch for the good ones.
- Report anything that felt off, even if nothing happened. Patterns matter to us.
- Block anyone you do not want to see again — it is instant and silent.
How to report
Every profile, plan, message and group chat has a report option in its menu. Pick a reason — spam or scam, feels unsafe, misleading, offensive, harassment or other — and add detail if you can. Blocking is separate and instant: the person disappears from your map, requests and chats, and they are not told.
For anything serious, email safety@solomigo.com.
In an emergency
If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first. In India dial 112. The in-plan safety panel can dial emergency services for you and send your live plan details to a friend by SMS.
Once you are safe, tell us what happened so we can act on the account.
Read the rules everyone agrees to in our Community Guidelines and Terms of Use.